These kinds of questions are best posted to the HELP forum, where, surprise, surprise, one may actually find some answers!

If you're so unhappy, why bother to come here? Whinging and moaning...ever heard of using honey instead of vinegar and/or altruistic* SUPPORT of something one considers worthwhile or wants to help in it becoming more worthwhile?

* just because; from the goodness of your heart; expecting nothing in return

There's a challenge for you!

kat