And making up stories and lying about people being druggies, social misfits, drunks, basket cases, drop-outs, and a lot of musical wannabes is also anti-social behavior and gratuitous abuse.

You, yourself have said that you don't know Wesley. And you really don't know anything about him. And yet you are insinuating that he and his wife are heroin addicts. With no reason to even suspect this as a possiblity, even the act of mentioning it as a possibility is abusive. And that's what you do. You make up a bunch of incredibly libelous lies about people and spread them around as the truth. Then you use those lies as a way of justifying your behavior here. But they're still lies. And that makes you not only gratuitively abusive and anti-social, but also a liar.