The party now rather reminds me of one where everyone brings a bottle and the party is going very well until certain guests (put on masks) and volunteer to prevent others from attending - pick fights - introduce a dress code - - seize all the booze - seduce your partner call everyone names and tell the rest of the invited guests to 'learn to live with it'.

They then start claiming that not only the party is theirs but act as if the whole house was and tell you that if you don't like what they have turned the party into - it is time for you to go somewere else.

My arse.....If these volunteers do not like the party we all were invited to by Max - they can start their own.