Brett,
Shared tears are a good thing. If Wakana cried alone and shut you out of her pain you two wouldn't have a chance together. Keep holding each other and sharing the good and the bad and you'll do fine with or without uncooperative relatives.
Besides, we are planning a mass wedding celebration for Friday night at the Getaway and you two are one of the couples to be celebrated. Wakana will have more "family" than she can possibly imagine. Champagne all 'round.
SINS