Joybell is right about the support given to the elderly and frail in a small community. I could give many examples but will keep it short by stating that the elderly are honoured and the frail and sick recieve compassion and support. Those that choose to stay seem to be more than happy to be surrounded by love and would probably die immediately if they had to go somewhere and live anonymously.

Although I have no plans to return on a permanent basis, it is the young people who encourage me to do so. It makes me feel as if I have worth to them when they offer support. I think that is what I miss the most - the young folks who express the desire to include you in their lives. Its amazing to me that they bother with me at all but they do. Even here in the city, they stop by to mow the lawn and/or offer their services. These are the kids I have known since the day they were born. Not related by blood but by a common bond and respect for one another.

Rapaire - I was a starry eyed romantic and still am. Some people make it and some people don't. If you don't enjoy physical labour, you probably won't. I would encourage anyone to give it a try. You can always change your mind and move back to the city. Its not like the city is going to go away anytime soon.

That said, the reality of butchering is enough to make anyone a vegetarian. Gutting fish doesn't bother me though and shellfish...well thats just easy living.