You've lost me on both counts, Sansculotte – I wouldn't say Tenterden was too gentle, certainly not when I'm singing! A little laid back at times, but that's part of the appeal. It's somewhere I can go and relax in good company.
As for your second comment, I trust you were referring to the Bear session in Faversham. Tenterden welcomes all, whether singer, musician or poet, traditional or contemporary, novice or experienced – everyone is encouraged.

Rima – I totally agree, a great session.