As Shane would say: "Ask me if I flippin' care!" (about whether Jude Law cheated on Sienna whoever-she-is...)

Ebbie - Yup. That sounds about right. I'll tell you something though...it is a greater thing to love ALL people than it is go give incredibly special love to one. (but that is very rare)

Our obsession with incredibly special love for one person only is a separation game the ego plays that royally screws up most people's lives and makes them obsessive romantic love junkies who are unhappy and unfulfilled most of the time. (read "A Course in Miracles" and associated literature for the lowdown on that...or listen to Marianne Williamson's 4-CD set on romantic love relationships.