60schik, I echo the comments above regretting any discomfort you have experienced here, especially the scary stalking.

But if you were referring to Clinton Hammond's invitation here, you should understand that that was just his idea of a joke. Hey he's got under almost everybody's fingernail at one time or another. It's just his way, but he's really an alright guy for all that; like a Rottweiler puppy (big and goofy and often pees on the floor). Like Little Hawk says, you need a bit of a thicker skin on Internet forums; most people come across as meaner than they really are.

Take a break and return with a different handle if you like. But do return, please.