What in the f*ck do I have to do with any of this?!?!?!
Nothing...

"I have been stalked by one member..."
Who'd bother....

And well, if you ARE being 'stalked' and Joe et al haven't BANNED the person doing the 'stalking' they are negligent and need to be held up to the public eye and shown to be incompetent jerks.... If they won't assist in keeping their 'members' 'cybersafe' then they are a passle of assholes... This isn't a little lanugage we're talking about... it's a matter of physical safety... (If it's not, the the term 'stalking' is overblown... If yer just getting PMs and emails you don't want, suck it up... the whole world gets those... delete them unread and leave it at that...)

Oh... that's right... they CAN'T ban anyone... (When they say WON'T, I doubt them to their bones....)

So, you do what you feel you gotta do 60'sChick...   It's just the internet... at the end of the day, it won't really matter one way or the other...   You'll probably get more 'reward' out of Real Life anyway...

Good luck eh