Ah, but see, Janie- your attitude and approach is a healthy one. If I could see that, I wouldn't be complaining.

Bruce, first of all: Why not make it to the Getaway?? As I've said before I would love to meet you and hear you and shudder sing with you. I can just about guarantee that I wouldn't sing for you, but if I could, I'd be honored to have you back me up. Bless you, chile.

I agree, Mary, that it is about ego, it is about Self. However, that is something we all have. Dealing with it is the issue.