I hope that the decision reached with regard to NI's future, is one that takes fully into account the wishes of everyone living there. I also hope that everyone living there feels safer and more content in the future. I hope the hostility amongst the Northern Iriah to one another dies out.

How will this be achieved? I think the only opinion that really matters, and is based on learned experience,is the opinion of those who have lived the breathed it first hand.

I do not feel qualified to offer a possible solution.