Dear P.P.
NEVER !!!regret that your priorities were "in the right place".....
Anyone, that has placed family....second....and not first .....has severly missed the meaning of life.
If your great-grand-father, THAT HAD a family, did NOT have a family, neither of us would be discussing this today....
As far as I am concerned, the GREATEST of all.... God-the-Almighty's....admonition's was "Be Fruitful And Multiply" .....you completed your part.