One of the times to be extra careful is when she just starts to pull out of the depression and you are thinking she is getting better. That's a time when a lot of people in her situation finally get the courage to go through with it.

We are always here for the both of you and I'm sure you've told her about Mudcat. If she has email, we would love to send her personal messages to let her know that there are people here who care for her even though we only know her as our Emily's friend.

Bert.