Kat, I can safely say I am not guilty because I have been absent for some time. But I am worried by the spirit of censoriousness you display. I have seen this in the mudcat before - remember the thread "Has Gargoyle got piles"? Probably all of us post when it is not necessary. But what is necessary? Is any of what we do here (on this site) necessary? Would imposing too rigid a test lessen this forum? I suspect so. Tonight I can sit and post (a funny way to wait for the millennium, if it is the millennium) because my wife went into hospital earlier today so she can't stop me. So this reading and posting is helpful to me. Would you censor or disalow that because what I asy may not be necessary?

Or, perhaps, has someone else got up your nose? If so, why not spit it out? (check for correct colloquial meaning before replying to the sexual innuendo which is not the required meaning in context).

Have a good next thousand years.