You take Rt 4 (with a bit of I89 in the middle) until you get to I95 and go north. Take exit 44 to Rt 295, take exit 1 to Rt 1, and then use the rest of the directions which someone will provide in a PM if you're serious. Snow?! Are people in VT that scared of snow in Nov?

If you go south on 88, there will be less of a chance of snow - especially if you take the shortcut through Florida - but it will take you a lot longer.