Love, light & hugs from Oz, too. I can say that after 3 years I am now getting over the shock of suddenly losing my Mum, and especially of not being able to say goodbye. Believe what Tannywheeler says because the pain and other reactions can hit you at different times and stages, out of the blue.

She seems to be a remarkable woman, and you will get to the stage of rejoicing in her life rather than feeling the pain of her loss.

My Mum's presence is still around us at times. She comes to visit and then goes on her way again. Even if you don't feel your Mother's presence, which you may not feel for at least 3 and maybe up to 6 months, at least know that she is there at times, just to come and say hello, give you her love, and see if you are all right.

Helen