You're so right, Jerry. An old Greek saying goes "do the good deed and throw it in the sea", i.e. expecting no return. It's the love you "give away" that counts the most.

And right away, in agreeing with you I am aware that I also unspokenly seek approval in return, as you happen to be someone whose opinion I value... Can't win...

But I agree anyway.

Selfishly yours
George