The FIRST thing that anyone naturally gives thought to is the innocent victim(s) of a crime. It's some time later that one gives thought to the situation of the accused.

If you are not seeking vengeance, Guest, then, great. That's good. What are you seeking?

We all wish for a world without violence, but I can't figure how we are going to get there. I know the death penalty won't get us there. It IS violence itself, after all, as you just indicated.