Oh, I reckon it's the same answer it's always been, Alba-- too many people failing to appreciate the nuances of the community when they first wander in, and changing it before they realize they've done that. (Then wondering, later, why the next batch of newbies "don't get it.")

The rest of the answer is the same as ever, too-- all anyone really can do is to do what you, yourself, can do, to set the tone you'd like to be able to enjoy here. And leave the rest to those who like what they are creating. It's the nature of the medium and of human beans, that's all.

~Susan