to continue the story - my other sister decided the wedding should be formal, which was why she found the second-hand bridesmaid dress, & as Pam was wearing a cream mini skirt & jacket, painted a life-size pic of a formally dressed bride & groom, cut out the heads so our bride & groom could look thru & get their photos taken.

it was a great day, 100 friends attended & John's stuffy colleagues who objected to the red-printed A4 invitation saying 'Pam & John want your presence, not presents' stayed at home. Apparently they would have attended if the invitation had said 'John & Pam ..." Lucky us.

sandra