When a person's spelling and or grammar are so bad that the reader has no clue what they are trying to say, I think of the statement , "Language was created so we can converse, and understand each other." Now, if you tend to talk backwards, (Throw Mamma from the train a kiss..." or you leave out connecting words, you should expect some heat from those who are capable of clear thinking. Don't blame them for your own shortcomings. Try to rise to their level of education, instead of expecting them to sink to yours.