Susan,

I was not arguing with you I just do not understand how it is you get to tell a member of a church they are not allowed to play music or sing in a church that they are a member of. I have heard from other members of this church besides my wife that it would be nice if the "band" could play something they could sing to. Maybe you would benefit from some of the members playing with you guys so they enjoy the show more so to speak and not cringe so much.

So what would happen if the members of the church wanted to form a band of their own? Would this not be allowed.   

Pete