Susan, you also posted this:

Pete, your post is kind of ambiguous in oe regard-- are you saying your wife is actually a member of the parish I play at? If that is the case, have you participated yourself? Are you sure you're getting the whole story? Would you like to sit in and see for yourself?

As I stated above, yes, his wife, me, is a member of the parish which you play at. I don't mean to speak for my husband but I do know the answers to these questions.

Yes, he has attended the Saturday night services on occassion. If you would prefer a more detailed answer as to why he is not coming more frequently, well, I can answer that too...but I'll leave that to him...if he wants to share that you or not.

Is he getting the whole story? YES. He hears things from me, other family members, friends and has seen things for himself. Are you insinuating that I am lying to my husband? I didn't think so. *cough*

Would he like to sit in? I'm thinking that if he wanted to sit in you'd have seen more of him.

I'll be anxious to see if he chooses to add anything more.

Michelle