The Israeli's attack the bomb makers and terrorist group members, and do not intentionally target non combatants (unlike the Palestinians who do)

This is a false statement, Dave. Some Palestinians (not the Palestinians) target non combatants. And some Israelis target non combatants as well...

http://www.breakingthesilence.org.il/testimony_en.asp?full=415

If you hold all Palestinians responsible for the behavior of some Palestinians, you are, in effect, legitimizing exactly the same kind of thinking that suicide bombers use when they hold all Israelis responsible for the behavior of some Israelis.

This way of thinking is wrong, whether you see things from the Israeli perspective, or from the Palestinian perspective.