I object to the use of the worfd "often"; I also believe that any "incitement" is purely in Roger's mind. I also object to the term "favoured" in the context used.

roger - naming someone to be what they have demonstrated themselves to be is not an insult - it is a statement of fact. the shoe fits, through your own choice and action, and thus you should wear it. If you do not wish to be called a buffoon, do not exhibit the behavior of one.