" Don't sweat the rules, cause there aint none"
..but there are standards and decisions and "deciders"...(our esteemed (*grin*) president said the other day that HE is the 'decider'. Here, Joe, and above him, Max, are the deciders. That way we don't have to write out in monumental and tedious detail all possible 'rules'.

The 'rule' is common sense and courtesy, and you, Roger, are just as guilty of avoiding that rule as those you complain about...you just do it in a different direction and call it something else.