That's my thinking, Little Hawk. When you have never been married and you are not in a romantic relationship with the one you work for, you just plain don't stumble into "my husband".   

Unless- well, maybe she has a fantasy romance going with him? Which doesn't ease my mind, actually. Sometimes we tend to forget, I think, that these are people who have access to and the power to press the button.

What a lame world.