Yes, we all want social justice but I don't think it can be achieved by using the tools that were used against us to hammer the other side. The only way to overcome is to rise above. A socially just society would not emphasize differences or perpetuate division. The goal would be to treat all people as human beings.

Just because equality does not exist, does that mean we should stop striving to attain equality? There is not much that I can do as an individual but I do have the ability to change my language. You can use whatever terms of reference you want.