Came back to see where this one eventually went and like most long threads it had much good in it, especially liked the way people clean up their 'Catshit as they go, when they are concerned if they have hurt anoither member. I like you all so much.

I don't know who said this,m but:

He who blushes is not yet a brute.

I think the applicable paralle is: He who stops to think is not the enemy.