In your anxiety to exercise your righteous militant wrath, over which you have drawn your hasty rationalizations about the black and white facts of the matter, you have reached some very straight and very shallow conclusions.
Study up on the violence that has been contained or extinguished altogether by diplomacy, rather than a resort to violence. Study up on the chain of consequences of teaching others to act on hatred, or to act in violence.
I think you will find that most times, it is a piss-poor alternative compared to creative diplomacy and inspired communication.
Unfortunately, the gang of militant and imperialistic barbarians you support doesn't know from communication of any real sort, and are so wrapped up in the same kind of specious rationalizations that they couldn't be inspired if you punched them in the solar plexus.