I started out as totally indifferent to the dance. But as I reached my teens,I plucked up the nerve to try If only to get closer to the sweet young ladys, thrusting and shaking their curvy bits in time to the music.
It has been said (and rightfully so)that dancing is a vertical impression, of a horizontal desire.
If I hold this thought in mind, dancing makes so much more sence.
I find, I have far more chance of getting a lady to dance than take a chance on the other.