Hesperis,

   You wrote, "I've stated a lot of things both here and in previous threads, apparently some people are capable of logic and others have difficulty connecting facts and things I've already said together."

Why be nasty? You are in a bind and people are TRYING to be helpful. Big surprise for you sweetheart, not everyone keeps up on all the details of your life from past threads as many of us have lives of our own. Imagine that. I think it takes balls to spit in the face of the same folks who you have sought help from. Thoughtful folk have offered various ideas and encouragement and look what you do. Way to go.

Michelle