Another of my 2 cents....

The best that can come of this "victimized" mode of thinking is for people to realize that we ALL hurt, over something, and we can ALL stand to be a tad more compassionate. YOU were hurt like THIS and YOU were hurt like THAT.

It's not a competition-- who gets hurt more or less or more unfairly. It's just that being a human bean carries some pain with it. Thus, we have commonalities there that we too-often turn into divisions.

~Susan