I was thinking along the same lines as Guest of 6:33 pm.

What a very difficult situation! Damage control is often the best one can do in these situations. My heart goes out to you and your daughter. I hope the day comes when Momma decides she wants her life to be something other than a train wreck. If that doesn't happen, you may eventually have to decide that your daughter seeing her is more harmful than not seeing her.

Blessings.

Janie