I just recently found out that I am/was one of those people, "It's done this way, you bozo!" I always knew I was opinionated about what I wanted the music to sound like, but never knew how bad I was until I was in an argument with a dear friend. Boy, did that smart! I have since resolved to keep my big yapper shut and to learn the fine art of letting everyone sing or play a piece his/her own way until the circle comes around to me. Then, I'll do what I want the way I want it done.

What bugs me the most is that, yeah, I knew something was wrong. I just wish all these dear friends would have told me sooner. Or, told me again or something....I guess if I had stopped to actually listen it would have helped. Oh, well...we all grow up in different ways at the weirdest times.