Jeff, take care of yourself!
I've been where you are now, and you lose focus on whatever isn't right in front of you right 'now', your life goes on 'hold', and you don't realize the amount of stress you're under, even though you think you do, until it stops, and you just know you can keep doing that for as long as you have to. Well, you can't. Eat, sleep, and make some time just for you, even if it's just a little bit.

And I'm NOT going to claim to be in 'Mothering mode'. I'd be a crappy mother. I'm in the Know-It-All Friend type of mode. You have a load of friends here. Some of us are pretty damned weird, but we care.

I'll send something via PayPal when I can find where I left my e-wallet. (I have an account out there somewhere!)