Yeah, that's what I was trying to say, Little Neo. Thanks for putting it into a complete thought!

I am forever puzzled by people who habitually speak unkindly or act in a way that can only be construed as being purposefully hurtful. Sometimes this, too, falls under the heading of being "honest". We sometimes laugh and refer to them as being "caustic". But, in their way, they are, I suppose, being honest (sometimes!). It is a fine line between being "perfectly honest" with someone andtelling them something that, although true, is not constructive. I guess what amazes me is the folks who either don't know the difference; or don't care. I just cannot fathom that behavior in some folks.

But regarding our view of our own children, I would have to agree - partially. I think for many it is quite natural to turn a blind eye to some of the things our kids do. But I also have seen those who are sharply critical of each and every thing a child attempts. Which is truly "natural"?

I think that in any endeavor to find the middle ground in our behavior, we have to battle one tendency or another. It is a struggle, usually. So, if we follow a bit of logic, it would seem that one extreme or the other would be the natural one and the middle would be somewhat UNnatural. Wouldn't it?