Reading Rick's posting makes me reflect on my own process of wanting to become a better musician. I am so dead serious about learning the banjo that it has gradually taken priority over many other things in my life.
As I strengthen my music as being a priority, I see my progress and the musician in me materialize.
It really isn't that complicated.
Learn your instrument.
Understand the musicians that have set the foundation.
Build from there by creating your own style based on those who have contributed before you.

Maybe others see it differently.

Little Neo