Tom - I know how easy it is to get wrapped up and wound up in some of these threads. Sometimes the best thing to do is to step away from it altogether for awhile, to go do something in the real world. It takes your mind off Mudcat. Then you wonder why you ever cared what someone here said to you. So what I would suggest is that if things people are saying on here are really annoying you, just stay away from it for a few days, do other things; then come back fresh.

Good luck!