Make a change in one area of life and it will spread to others. Do you have physical clutter in your house and garage? Start with cleaning that out. Then look at your job situation. Perhaps you need to change jobs, or if you are past a certain age etc. it might be best to stick with it but certainly take some classes etc. that would allow you to branch out a bit either now or after retirement. Then perhaps some honest conversations with your wife, followed by marriage counseling...and perhaps some fun vacations...or local hikes or whatever. It is not hopeless. You are not in chains. mg