However, I understand the importance of perspective and the ability to remove oneself from a discussion so as to evaluate it from a new pespective.

You could also apply that to viewing a victim of broken leg.

From the perspective of the one who is not suffering the pain - you may judge the victim to be making too much of it.

If you are the one suffering from the broken leg - no matter how important you may judge the ability you suggest, to be - you rather obviously lack the ability to move yourself to any other perspective from that of the one on whom the pain and suffering has been inflicted upon.

In this case - it would perhaps be more positive for you to evaluate the discussion to the perspective of those set on intentionally being seen to inflict the pain?

Who could also perhaps be expected to view the discussion from a new perspective and one other than their own rather narrow perspective?

If you were to be fair - you may accept that my perspective is not in fact only limited to my own special and unfair treatment, which is used mainly to evidence to my concerns for the larger issues and our forum in general?