The question that remains unanswered:

Is Gulliver, who expressed his concer, concerned about how to do it, or about how to get it?

Either aspect of it could be equally difficult, depending on the circumstances and abilities of the person; but we could use some guidance as to whether he's interested in all the kinky things people do now - that HE may not have done 35 years ago - (although none of them are really very new); or whether he's concerned about findin' and courtin' and sweet talkin' at 'em.

John