People with gigantic egos can not ignore anything said about them. They must respond. When it is positive, they bask, preen, and feign humility. When it is negative, they strike back and then feel shame. Then they run to any available authority to eliminate the other person rather than taking responsiblity by ignoring what is said about them or settling the dispute privately. They must exhibit themselves. Either way, they bore. Being male is no excuse.