that is a brave and kind post Sinsull. It brings back the reality that all this was not about battling egos, it was about a bully who picked on vulnerable people. It's hard for most of us to see what has happened, or to understand why. There's a difference between being frank and harassing someone. No one should put up with harassment and people who confront harassers should be supported. The people that monitor this site see a lot more than we do. Some catters have learnt the hard way that the people here have good reasons for the decisions they take.

freda