It is only a shame that so few posters are prepared to stick their heads up and say it.
Because, m'dear fellow, for most posters the points you raise are an irrelevance. They ask questions of each other and provide answers, they discuss music (remember that?) and politely agree to disagree on matters of greater weight. What they say is not egregiously offensive, nor do they repeat themelves ad nauseam. Nor do they constantly whinge about the way the place is run.