And that, dear PatSpaw is why we love you so much. Thank you for all that you've posted. Wolfgang, thanks to you, too, for telling us the rest of the story.

Just one comment: I know this has been about the children and what do we do, but no one has gone into the problems of why things have come to be this way. We still have very powerful religious and governmental entities effecting women's choices, all over the world. So, IMO, we will always have the problem of unwanted children, of children having children, until the underlying issues are resolved and I am not sure there is much hope of that.

Sorry for another damper.

kat