Let me put it this way Guest.
I own a House.
Some people come to visit.
They tell me it isn't how they like it. They want me to change it. I say no. They say but your House is 'stale, old, and contentious, it's time to make changes."
What do I say.
I say go buy your own House and have it as you wish. Change is something that I will decide in my House. I may ask for opions but I will not be forced to change what it mine to suit a few visitors!

I think for me I shall agree to disagree with your opinion on this issue Guest.
Now I do have to clean my "OLD" new House..lol
Perhaps we shall discuss this at a later point in the day.
Respectfully
Jude