As I see it, most people leave not because of the 'management' or the way the forum is run, but simply because they become heartily sick of the constant bickering and the sometimes juvenile standard of debate. And, that, dear Guest, is entirely down to the people posting.
If you don't like the forum as it is, then join in constructively and try to raise the standards. I believe that you will only get censored if you say something malicious about another individual. I happen to think Teribus is a misguided fool in his stance over the war in Iraq, but I hope my sometimes robust comments are not seen as malicious. Similarly with my exasperation at akenaton and his belief in astrology (poor lad). It is perfectly possible, however, to discuss these differences withouy foul abuse.
If, however, you want to get your kicks by saying unpleasant and destructive things about other people, this probably isn't the place for you.
Now be off about your business.