If you haven't had an ADHD child or an Autistic child, then you are talking a load of bollocks.

How do any of you know anything about that child. How can you presume that the parents are bad parents.

I am very strong on morality and I and my wife have, even against all odds, turned our children into decent children, who do not swear and are not agressive to other children. They are 11 and 15 now.

I can rememeber (and I will never ever forget) my family (Father/Mother/Brothers telling us that we were bad parents becuase we couldn't control our children. We were at the end of out wits trying so hard to deal with their issues.

Its only when we had both of them diagnosed did we see any change in our families behaviour to us. When we needed help from our family, we didn't get it and I will never ever forget that.

So before you judge people, take time to wonder if you know what the hell you are taklking about or know about.

My children have been a pain in the arse becuase they can never sit still and get hyped up and my autistic daughter can't always handle normal people, becuase of their illnesses, but that doesn't make them naughty or doesn't make the parents bad parents.

One thing that amazes me, is they have never ever been in trouble.

i will get my coat.