Dave is of course right in saying that clubs shouls be welcoming and tolerant. But as any fule know, many are not and I have roundly condemned them here and elsewhere for being anything from cliquey and unfriendly to care in the community drop-in centres. It is not, however, in the slightest bit helpful for Tim The Twangler to tell his local club that he's not playing unless they do it his way. Dave's right again. Go and start your own.